|Marion Evans before her marriage, 1912 in Gaylordsville Connecticut|
Marion Evans was born in Sherman Connecticut 11 February 1886, the 2nd daughter of Charles Harold Evans and Caroline Matilda Helsten. Her father Charles and her uncle Edward had built houses next door to each other, at the foot of Evans Hill Rd. where their parents, Charles Evans and Hannah Elizabeth Radford lived on the top. On the other side of that same hill in Gaylordsville, lived Marion's maternal grandparents, Eric Adolf Helstein and Mary Hearty.
Charles and Edward had a busy house construction business in Sherman and Gaylordsville. In 1888, they decided to move their families and their business north to Great Barrington, Massachusetts where there was a building boom going on. Charles and Edward Evans opened the Barrington Building Co. which ended up building not only houses but also a high school their daughters attended and other large buildings around the community over the years.
Neither Charles, nor his wife Caroline had any college education. They might have attended high school but I don't know. It is clear that education was important to them: Caroline was involved with the Current Events Club and Charles with the Sons of the American Revolution in Great Barrington. Charles' mother, Hannah Elizabeth Radford Evans, amazingly had one year of college back in 1844-1845. Caroline's immigrant parents -- Eric Adolf Helsten and Mary Hearty-- came in the mid-1840s and did encourage at least one of their 4 children (Sarah) to have education beyond high school.
Both Marion (1904) and her older sister, Clarice (1902), graduated from Searles High School. Clarice taught in local schools before going on and getting degrees and eventually teaching at Jersey City State Teachers College in New Jersey starting in 1937.
As young unmarried women in the early 1900s, they needed to have jobs. One might live at home, but unless you had wealthy parents, you needed to support yourself. Both Marion and Clarice were in school at the same time, each graduating in 1908 -- Marion from Pratt Institute in Brooklyn New York with a degree in Domestic Science; Clarice from Connecticut's State Normal Training School in Danbury with a teaching certificate-- each with a two-year degree.
Marion's first job out of college was teaching high school domestic science in Saginaw Michigan. Then she came back east and took courses at Columbia Teachers College for 2 years. Her skills caught the attention of the philanthropist Helen Gould (daughter of Jay Gould) who hired her teach nutritional cooking classes for women in Roxbury New York during the summer of 1912. She worked for Helen Gould all year, helping with setting up a new organization's chapter, the Campfire Girls, in Irvington New York and typing a book of sermons for a minister there. When not working, she would be back home in Gaylordsville Connecticut. Her parents were now living in her Helsten-grandparents' former home just over the Housatonic River from Robert Edward Dakin who was back at his parents' home working on the Bulls Bridge Power Plant addition.
|Wedding of Marion Evans and Robert Edward Dakin, 1913|
Marion and Robert Married on 13 September 1913 in Gaylordsville. Rob was and engineer working projects around the state. So, they would set up house-keeping and when the job required that they move, they did. So they had three children born in three different towns. Robert Edward Jr was born in Danbury on 15 May 1915, dying the next day. Theodore Robert was born in New Haven on 11 November 1916. Edward Evans was born in Derby on 28 January 1918. In August 1918 the family had moved again, this time back to Danbury so Rob could work on the dam at Stevenson over the Housatonic River.
Marion's busy daily life with children and running the household was abruptly disrupted by the flu pandemic that was sweeping all over the world. On Saturday 30 November, Rob got sick. Marion had two young children -- a two year old and a 10 month old along with a sick husband. She sends her older child to stay with Aunt Mary in Gaylordsville and her mother Carrie Helsten Evans comes down to help. By Wednesday 4 December, her son Edward was sick, as was her mother Carrie. On Tuesday 10 December, her mother Carrie dies, the next day, her son Edward Evans died and on Thursday there was a double funeral. The next Monday, her husband Rob died. So, in 5 days, Marion lost her mother, son and husband to the flu -- she was now a 32 year old widow with a two year old son -- her life had dramatically changed.
|Marion at Pratt Institute|
There was irony of the picture of Marion at the top of this page. She is sitting in the wagon, the mode of transportation around Sherman and Gaylordsville. Soon after the picture, she married and her husband was an engineer who needed to travel around the state. So, by the time he died, he was driving a car. After he died and she took the job as the first Extention Nutritionist in Connecticut, in 1921 she was driving around the state to make presentations. By the time she died, she & Ted had not only taken a boat to England to visit her sister in 1929, and then before she died she had traveled by plane to Sweden and then Japan. To top it all off, she even watched the landing of man on the moon in 1969. Could she have even imagined the changes in transportation in her lifetime when sitting in that family wagon.
More details on the life of Marion Evans Dakin (11 February 1886-4 July 1974) are included in my article that was published in TIARA Newsletter, 2 September 2015, vol. 32, no 3. TIARA (The Irish Ancestral Research Association) had a focus issue on Researching the Lives of Women.
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©Erica Dakin Voolich 2016